Karen
Horney has created a personality structure, starting from the needs of the
person. All, the following requirements specific to each subject in their
meeting held emergence as a person. The only nuance in favor of human
childhood. If the children's needs are met adequately (as a child needs two:
the satisfaction of (sleeping, eating, etc.), and security), the personality is
formed correctly. If these two requirements are not satisfied - hence there is
such a thing as a "Basal anxiety." By this term lies skewed toward a
certain person needs an adult. In a normal person, this imbalance is not, and
dissatisfaction in one area, it is easy to compensate for progress in the
other. In the case of basal anxiety, people "stuck" on a specific
need and cannot get rid of the feeling of dissatisfaction. Below is a list of
needs and options for meeting them. These options use all the people, but
neurotics stuck on a separate and cannot move on.
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Need
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Strategy meeting
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1. In the love and
approval
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Insatiable desire to
be loved and admired by others; increased sensitivity and responsiveness to
criticism, rejection or unfriendliness
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2. The managing
partner
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Excessive dependence
on others and fear of rejection or being alone; revaluation of love - the
belief that love can solve all
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3. The explicit
restrictions
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The preference of
the lifestyle in which paramount limits and the established procedure;
undemanding, being content to small and subordination to other
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4. In the Power
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Dominance and
control over others as an end in itself; contempt for weakness
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5. The exploitation
of others
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Fear of being used
by others, or fear of looking "stupid" in their eyes, but the
reluctance to do something is to outsmart them
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6. In public
recognition
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The desire to be
admired by others; self-image is formed depending on the social status
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7. In a rapture
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The desire to create
a flattering image of himself, devoid of shortcomings and limitations; the
need for compliments and flattery from others
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8. ambition
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A strong desire to
be the best, regardless of the consequences; fear of failure
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9. The
self-sufficiency and independence
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Avoidance of any
relationship, intended to make any commitments; distancing from all and
sundry
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10. The integrity
and irrefutable
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Attempts to be
morally infallible and perfect in all respects; maintaining the impression of
perfection and virtue
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