Price of development

All that is useful for a person requires a certain return. Movers sacrifice free time walking troechniki - knowledge, the unemployed - low standard of living, millionaires - time for yourself ... All of life boils down to is that we separate possible, choosing only priority. The question is priority for us in some perspective? Can we donate impulsive desires for the sake of a more long-term goals? And if not, how to learn it?

One of the foundations of psychology lies in the fact that all mentally and physically healthy people - are equal. The only difference between them - the desire and the purposes for which we focus. If something is really "burn", we will not stop at nothing until "it" is no longer bother us. The most common example of the vast network of motivation and commitment, taken from a person who wants to use the toilet. He no barriers at all unimportant. Laziness, hunger, force environment. The most primitive need to be given the strongest momentum.

Therefore - if we do something wrong, then we do not want it badly enough. Again, pay attention to the example. Take a person with addiction of smoking. From it easier to get rid of than from alcoholism, requiring more drastic interventions and a person often is unable to do it yourself. What is most often heard from the man accused of dependence on cigarettes? "I could easily quit, if I wanted to." Here lies the main root. The ability to stop drinking, smoking, using drugs, stay up late, eat sweets - have each of us. Every person who is dependent, can get rid of it. In extreme cases - death is deliverance.

The question that is worth asking the person who alleges that "could quit if I wanted," is to sound like that. "You want this as much as you think? If not, why not? ". Often, it is some desire causes a person to act a particular way. Again, desire is the basis of acts rather than abilities.

The cost of getting those desires that we are not satisfied. To be "the soul of the company" or create a revolutionary invention? Approve the status of the male, winning the girls, or conquering the country? Being the most powerful clubs in the box, or some influential director of the company? All these goals require a lot of effort and it is impossible to develop them together. While there, you can develop all together - but the recoil effect in each of them, will be minimal. And if you develop all, so even with the maximum efficiency, it is possible to drain the nerves, health and quickly die.

Unfortunately (or fortunately), there is not a single current promotion which would be guaranteed success. There is always a price, and the higher it is, the higher the reward might be related.

Wanting something, we just have to seek it. Otherwise, the idea will remain unrealized in dreams, tormenting consciousness and causing regret for the lost time.