Strength in regularity

The man is still being extremely flexible. As individuals, we are a piece of clay, varying degrees of hardness. Thus, his personality, we create ourselves, or surrender to the will of the external case. Of course, there are often be both. When something does not represent value for us, we prefer that the choice to do someone, but we do not. What is the reason for such behavior? The reason is that man is still an animal, and tends increasingly to rest and not work. This is a nice, comfortable, well developed. Moreover, no one forbids us to do it, but on the contrary - most are forced to such behavior. Advertising, promotion, our instincts and needs. The huge reservoir of reality contributes to the fact that we were in the comfort. But, in this case, we sacrifice an important part of yourself. We are sacrificing development.

To develop - no need to go to great deeds. Moreover, it is extremely dangerous. Personal development takes place within our homeostasis. Gradually, without abrupt changes and jerks. You grow above him in the little things that make up the big picture. For example, to pump huge muscles in a single load, without harm to health - will not work. A significant achievement - the result of a daily, constant practice. The practice, which becomes a habit. Practice, which may consist of one or two actions. But they will bring astonishing results over time.

Consequently, the operating principle and the reverse when we try to stop an action, most often a bad habit. If you need to gradually get used to load itself, producing behavior system, there - all the way around. If there is something to throw, sharply. Do not wait until the progressive "abolition", not to reduce the dosage or frequency. In one fell swoop refuse, securing their status. Moreover, it does not approach it as a "denial and restriction of" itself. It is necessary to consider the situation from the perspective of: "I'm so abruptly ordinary people to be able to smoke / drink / eat everything, but at the same time hold on the correct outlook and way of life."

Our primitive instincts and needs, it is not only "extra weight". This can be regarded as a supply of "fuel" for the accomplishment of something. Selfishness and self-centeredness can be reformatted and used as described in the above example. Inflate your pride and use it to keep the correctness of opinion and outlook.

It is difficult to say that to make it easier - to get used to or grow out of something. It's not that. The basis for success will always be the regularity and perseverance. Sooner or later, in a year or ten, but stubborn and persistent will succeed. In spite of laziness, weakness, barking dogs and imaginary goal.

Clearly seeing the goal, we completely ignore the obstacles.