Living
in a world filled with the objective events and occurrences, we are every day
confronted with them and to react to them in a certain way. The main feature is
that the number of events at the same time unique and atypical for each of us.
Considering
the life "from outside", we can observe certain moments or events
that somehow characteristic of all. The moment of birth and death. This applies
to everyone who lived on the planet, man. First love, promoting the social
ladder, work, family ... there are generalized indicators of what life is like
a multi-component process.
But
our reaction, our personal experience, indicate the subjectivity of what is
happening. The world offers us many options, we select only the ones that suit
us. In the rare case, we change ourselves. More often - we'll be ready to
consume. Certain opinion, the actions of people, ideological trends, facts that
revolve "by ear" ... Often, we operate by these criteria.
Intelligence
has been developed as an instinct, is responsible for quick decisions. And what
could be faster than the waste to automatic installation, repeated day after
day? Or samples that have been successful?
We
tend to analyze the lives of successful people, guided by their actions and
accomplishments. We take example from them, without realizing, the subjectivity
of such an approach. After all, they lived life in a different environment.
Perform other actions, and looking at the situation from a different angle
altogether.
Development
is, what a lot of ways of self-improvement, and use it to select the desired.
Those that help to grow. Which brings results. There is a lot to check on
yourself, be prepared for failure, and, most importantly, to be able to drop
unnecessary options. Time to give up, that does not give the result.
There
is no guarantee that developing on a particular vector, we'll go to a dead end.
Not all methods of self-construction and success really bear fruit. But trying
to change something, we are guaranteed to become at least "a little",
but better.
Our
future is uncertain. We all are creating here and now.
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