Birth

The birth is often accompanied by pain, fear and risk, after which we get a huge dose of freedom and a place for personal growth. A similar comparison can be traced in all the councils of self-development that offer "get out of your comfort zone." Often, this is a certain sense, as many successful people have to do what they do not know. They had to risk everything and teeth to gnaw their way up. But those successful individuals who are looking at us from the covers of magazines and web pages, it is only a certain percentage. At the same time, very insignificant.

Such a way out of the comfort zone is necessary when other methods no longer work. Only in desperation, we can afford to take risks. Only to lose the most valuable thing we are free (up to a point). Going beyond the subjective world of ambient useful, but only as a source of experience, knowledge and inspiration.

Very good similar effect has dousing with cold water, or when out of the hot bath \ saunas ran out into the snow or jump through the hole. Such a shock activates the body's reserves, producing some shake. This can be useful. And maybe kill.

Feeling kind of "birth" of every day, we can not get better. Yes, some of our part will evolve, adapt to the new load, to adapt ... But this is akin to the stability of alcohol in chronic alcoholics (sorry for tautology). New risk does not reveal new emotions, feelings, thoughts ... He just shakes his body and nothing else.

Just get out of your comfort zone and be proud of it, is equivalent to the payment of the loan or the complication of addiction. The fact of the incident does not make us better. This is not cause for pride. But if after that we inspire and accomplished a breakthrough ... invented awake, create something, and shake this world (or a small part of it), then yes. Then a kind of way out of convenience, can be the cause of personal "birthday".

Though the word "birth" It is appropriate to be replaced by "shedding." We reset the old skin, presented to the world in a new light. Transformed from caterpillar to butterfly, speeding the adult stage. The procedure for such a "birth" is good, but do not abuse it. You should not fanatical about finding risk, and take it as a given.

Fear, despair, pain and breaking stereotypes and consciousness - related elements of such processes. It should be ready for this. It should go for it.