To
do something that is not available to others - one of the highest pleasures of
human nature. Our society is divided into classes, guilds, communities. Each of
them, and each person that relates itself to them, has its privileges,
responsibilities and tasks. Accordingly, a person tends to do so, that would be
the duties entrusted to it less, but freedom and the right to give more. De
jure, this scheme works. We see that the exposed persons allow themselves such
that we can not afford us. Like the audience in the palace of the Emperor, we
look at the reference entities that are beyond the screens, glossy covers, on
the other side of the world around us. And the man contemplates daily the
success of others, he could not help himself thinks and dreams about what would
be in their place.
Improvement
involves working on yourself. Man forced to apply a force and force yourself to
perform certain actions, or to oppose the outside world. And the more complex a
person to do something, the more he will get out when you reach a certain goal.
We can observe the progress of the individual, which is under external pressure
and well resourced. For example, the easiest way to see it is in the army.
Discipline, physical activity, nutrition. The three components, which enable
the creation of man as close as possible to his role. But how perfect is this
man in the realization of personal potential?
It's
one thing when the task before us puts the world. It is completely natural and
sensible. Moreover, the man is exactly what occurs when solves the problems
that come from the outside. This principle is laid on the boards, which
recommend "get out of your comfort zone." We perform a single effort,
we are launching a mechanism of external stimuli that encourage us to move.
Example: The guy who dreams of becoming a stronger, healthier, buy signs of
masculinity, be disciplined and "harden" character - is the army. It
is a sensible move. Upon successful combination of circumstances to gain the
desired quality. But this is not the only way.
Another
guy reconsider day regimen, begin to eat properly, can be written to the gym or
go to the section of the martial arts. It will acquire the same skills, but
deliberately tracking certain changes that come with it. A set of useful
characteristics in the first case - to be quantitative. In the second -
quality. But the two people who choose this path, which themselves decide on it
- get a certain status. Confirming their strength, they know they are superior
to those people who have not yet done so, being with them on an equal footing.
And the feeling that they are "better" gives confidence in the
abilities and desire to go for more.
The
successful person does not condemn others, do not boast of achievements and do
not seek to prove their superiority. The pleasure of perfection entirely
"internal". And it allows them to go further and get better.
Development involves reliance on personal achievement and the desire to
increase them. Successful people - self-sufficient. His rival - is it in the
past myself. The reference person - he is in the future.
We
can try to prove to people that we are better than them. We can not listen to
anyone and do your job. But only on the fruit of our environment can judge us.
And the choice of the path that leads to the summit of evolution, entirely up
to us.
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