Fly in the cobweb

Any stimulus makes us act. In a moment of danger, stress, pressure - we begin to act to avoid the negative stimulus. The reaction is primitive, but it is fundamental and it is on the basis of its survival is based, as a resource person. The problem is that if you know how to act person can create the necessary algorithm for control. As an example we can take the social network. Using the material, we will place it in the network itself promotes harm to social networks. Customers who noted in his symptoms depending automatically "liking" and "reposting" this material. Without reading. Not learning. For that to demonstrate their awareness of others. The logic is striking: you want to be independent from the social network, show it to friends. And the best way to do this is where the most friends. The cycle is closed.

The problem is not, depending on the network. After all, we in the same way dependent on food, sleep, entertainment, meetings with friends, and a variety of leisure activities. Social networking is the best version of newspapers, magazines, radio and television. To refuse them, why? On the contrary, because we will lose the news, we are not aware about the situation in the world or its own interests. It is necessary to allow yourself to enjoy them, but correctly and efficiently.

The fly, which falls into the web begins to twitch convulsively. Man entering the network - immediately starts looking for popular sources. And not any, and those who help him look and sound better than it actually is. The only question is, what goal we set for ourselves. We want to "look" better, or "to be"?

A man surrounded by a mass of tools for improvement and growth. Everything rests only in our ability and motivation. Are we ready for more - hard to say. Do we want to work - no. Most often, people want to be better than a particular person. Screen - an inch longer than your neighbor. The car - a little better than that of colleagues. Phone - underlining superiority over former classmate.

And for the sake of what would look better, we are even more entangled among false sentences, questionable goals and benchmarks illusory. The secret to success is simple: to work sixteen hours a day. And there are no miracles, there is no "magic". Fly, ranked in the web, and starts to rush confused even more. All because she wants to "somehow break free." Not to want to "somehow". You must have a plan, purpose, opportunities and the ability to soberly. Only in this way can we really become better.

You can look better and impress. You can work on yourself and achieve real results. Who we are and what our true position - it depends only on us.