Destination

Each person has a certain belief about their own role in the world. Those who believe in fate, someone - in the timetable, some in certain cycles of the organism and the particular mood. All this is anyway, but affects the order of the day, month, and year of life in general. We live by asking certain algorithms and order of the events that make up a life. What we get in return? A certain peace of mind, as to what should happen.

The question is whether we can somehow influence events and the world at large. Or is it all depends on the will: Gods case, fate or horoscope? Who manages the life we ​​have, or the secret corporation, the forces of evil or clubs elect. The answer to this question is given by psychology. The psychologist will never solve the problem instead of the client, in fact, he did not make the world more loyal to one or another person. The essence of any advice - to change the relation of man to this or that problem. Is it justified? At 90%. It is so the world depends on us.

We draw a picture of the world based on the senses and the experience gained years earlier. We contemplate the overall structure of the universe, we define its role and correspond to it, or carefully adjust. Thus, we automatically forming its purpose, which now depends on us.

Optimist, pessimist and realist - get the same stimulus. But the reaction that follows it, everyone has their own. And, depending on the situation, we have provided a useful role of each. Hoping for more, to fear the worst and put up with the reality. Properly using all of that with which we are concerned - we can achieve maximum efficiency.

Destination, as such, no. We did "invent" themselves, depending on the chosen ideals. So it is very little incentive, can lead us to the chosen road. Just something large and heavy, what is not the strength to fight. Illness, death, catastrophe ... Everything else - small errors on the way to "the Great."

There is no "talent gene", success, evil rivals and other "monsters" that may arise in the imagination. This is only the fruit of our expectations, and not the fact that they are real. For us, of course, they are more than real. But it is necessary to rationalize the mind to get rid of certain feelings, sober look at the situation. "Get yourself together" is very useful for personal effectiveness.

Convenient and comfortable to believe in a higher power that determine our destiny. Much more difficult - to defend its position only with the wealth of knowledge and experience that we have accumulated. Do not rely on the quotes and thoughts of others. Only dry performance of an activity. Only according to their works, to try them, and to use the results for their own benefit. In the past, parents have helped us, cared for us and contributed to our development. But we are growing, evolving, changing ...

The requirements that are put forward to the modern man, an order of magnitude higher than those who were nominated to the emperor of past eras. We deserve independence, but have to pay for it a significant cost. In the end, everyone chooses, through what points to look at reality.

Or, do without them.