Unsuccessful accent

It is human nature to think positively. We have strong cognitive abilities that allow us to draw any picture perception. We analyze, collate and synthesize very different theories and concepts. In the world, we are the central person, and that the universe revolves around us. That is how our brain is a picture of the world. This person creates the world. Otherwise, we risk losing the status of "being valuable" for themselves. It's not bad, it gives the possibility of a different nature. And it does not work with most people.

We focus on the world, which is the fruit of the work of our brain to the outside world. The first - acts as a powerful creator, the second represents the source of resources and nothing more. And that we decide how to use those or other resources.

But there is a chance that the person will refuse it. No longer perceive themselves as active person, we omit the limp hand and allow others to deal with the situation. And here it is worth to make a stop. Firstly, one can not perfectly understand everything. Second, you can redirect the responsibility in different ways and in different kinds of activities. You can trust the electrician to install wiring, or the surgeon performing the operation. You can use the views of reference entities and build on expert opinions. At the same time, we remain active side, as we hire employees, analyze the situation, and in this activity the creative element is present. But.

There is a separate category of people who are looking at the case, coincidence, luck. They do not take any action with respect to its position. And the reasons for this behavior may be a lot. From fear of responsibility and ending the reluctance to do anything. For such people decide bosses, creditors, parents, politicians, people and random coincidences. And these factors are the target of accusations.

We can blame the government, government agencies, individuals. And only if the alternative offer. If we act only as a user, our criticism is groundless. It does not carry any meaning and only displays our position as those used, cheated, humiliated.

Focusing on the fact that we are someone has to, we painted in his own helplessness to make that either. It is necessary to escape from those who led us (if they really let down). Do not focus on the negative, but to seek a positive solution to a particular problem or issue.

We are still masters of destiny. We decide what to do in any given situation. Obey, or shine. Both the first and second, it is necessary and important. Our task - to competently respond to the situation.